8 Mutual Masturbation Techniques

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8 Mutual Masturbation Techniques

If you're into bate sessions with your bros, you'll probably have tried all of these.

But if you're looking for some options to mix up your masturbation with your mates, check out these tried and tested techniques.

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1. Side by Side

This is an easy, safe starting point if you're just exploring what intimacy between you and bro might look like. You can focus on your own cock and pleasuring yourself, while still having the physical closeness of another dude.

2. Sitting Facing Each Other

This is good for eye contact and for encouraging each other to really go deep into the bate.

3. Dry Humping

This is where you're both humping a cushion or a pillow to simulate sex but the main focus is to use the friction to stimulate yourself.

4. Cradle

This is particularly good for a Big Bro/Little Bro role-play. Little Bro lies back into Big Bro's arms - back against his chest, cradled and supported. Big Bro can help jack Little Bro or just encourage and support him as he bates.

5. Straddle

Straddling your bate-buddy's chest is the standard way of doing this - you're really getting right up into his face with your greasy dong and it's almost inevitable that you're going to blow your load all over his lips.

6. Audio

Sensory deprivation is a good way to explore different bate experiences. For example, you could both be blindfolded, or you might do it over the phone. Really focus in on the sounds that each of you are making as you explore the pleasure of your bodies.

7. Face to face

You're looking for eye contact, you're looking for verbal, you want to really build the sexual energy between you.

8. Sex Toys

Anything like a Fleshjack is going to be fun to play with if you're having a bate session with a buddy. There's also options that are effectively double-ended, so you can both use the same toy as you're masturbating.

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