A beginner’s guide to booking a sex-worker
If you’re looking for some extra intimacy in your life, or you’re interested in exploring some man-on-man action, then you might be interested in the range of services provided by gay escorts.
But how do you go about booking a sex-worker? And what actually happens?
Know the local laws
Different parts of the world have different rules and requirements when it comes to escorts and sex-workers. In some countries, it’s completely illegal, in others there’s specific regulations that govern how sex-workers can operate. There’s also lots of grey areas where a bit of a dont-ask-don’t-tell approach is adopted.
Make sure you know the laws that apply to where you are. You need to make sure that you’re not putting yourself or the sex-worker at risk.
Assess the options
Most sex-workers operate on a self-employed or freelance basis, but there’s often agencies or directories that can help make your search easier.
When you’re looking at a directory of escorts and figuring out who is going to float your boat, you’re looking for current photos and enough information that gives you confidence that you’re not going to get any surprises or scammed out of your cash.
As well as all the vital statistics, most ads will make it clear whether the escort offers in-calls or out-calls. You’re also looking for someone who is in your area.
If you’re looking for a sex-worker to travel to you, they may ask for a deposit up-front to ensure that they’re not wasting their time.
Ask the questions
Escorts are professionals. They’re going to be happy to answer any questions you’ve got. It’s important that you’re clear what services are on offer, and what the cost will be. If you’re looking for something specific, make sure you discuss this with the escort up front.
Don’t be shy or embarrassed. Be direct and clear in your communications. If an escort isn’t able to answer your questions, then they’re probably not the escort for you.
If the sex-worker quotes you a price, don’t ask for a discount or try to negotiate. If the price is asking is more than you want to pay, look for another escort.
In your initial interactions with an escort, while you are assessing if they’re what you’re looking for, the escort is also assessing whether they want to take you on as a client. It’s okay to be direct in your communications, but it’s important that you’re courteous and respectful. If you’re offensive, or if it seems like you’re going to more trouble than you’re worth, the escort won’t take your booking.
Will there be a repeat booking?
Your experience with an escort might be a one-off thing. Maybe next time, you’ll be looking for something else, or a different type of guy. Generally, the best experiences with a sex-worker happen when you start to build a rapport with the escort. You get more comfortable with each other, you both learn how to get the most out of your time together.
A BEGINNER’S GUIDE TO BOOKING A SEX-WORKER
My experience is totally disappointing and sad. I don’t get to meet hardly anyone from Grinder or other gay dating websites. There was a time I used to meet a lot of guys. Now a days as soon as I sent in my pic I get blocked. I think I have been judged on the basis of my look. I don’t think I am ugly to look at. I am beautiful/ I am handsome.
So to keep my sexual desires satisfied once I met an Escort. I met him via Twitter. I accidentally stumbled on his profile and suddenly I was attracted to him. I did not have any hope when I contacted him that he would message me back . But he did reply me and he was beyond my expectations. Very next morning we met and we had the amazing mind blowing sex. It did not stop there, I did not have enough of him. I send him another request to meet him and that was also accepted. This time he stayed with me for a longer period. Gradually over time our friendship took off to another level. I realised that I have developed feelings for him. He also had feelings for me. During one night in the mindset of love making I told him , clinging on to his neck whilst he was deep inside me I told him I LOVE YOU and we gazed each other. Suddenly his wet lips gulped my Lips. He released me from his hold and whispered in my ear I love you too… ! But we were a couple only temporarily. He knew that he could not be faithful to me which he told me. He also added that he does not wish to hurt me in such a way. But we were happy with each other’s company whenever we met and we had many memorable erotic high and horny nights . But it all came to an end when he decided to leave UK. He was very very upset . He rang me on the day he was leaving . He was drunk and he put a heartbreaking good bye video for me . It broke my heart. He was my first escort experience. A very decent nice caring man. I don’t think I will find another man like him. God bless him and I hope that he is safe somewhere.
After that I tried to meet few other escorts through Grinder mainly . But they were all money munching scavenging disrespectful guys. They did not do anything we discussed before the meet. Upon arrival requested money upfront. Then gave me completely negative demeanours from them , no touching, nothing sexually, wasting time keep going for smoking, pretending he forgot something and making phone calls whilst I stand naked in-front of them and clock watching. As I do work as a behavioural scientist I easily understood the meanings of their behaviour. Not one experience a few of them like that’. But I behaved courteously. I did not comment or demanded anything. Such a heart ache meeting escorts recently.
Well yet again i am going to meet another guy tomorrow morning. I have explained to him about my bad experiences, he said he won’t be a clock watcher . Let’s see what happens. Do I get a cock !! Wish me luck .