Are you into fisting?

Maybe you’ve been watching a bit of fisting porn and you’re interested in giving it a try? Let’s take a look at how to get started.

Manage your expectations

You’re going to have to start small. You’re going to need to take it slow. Sure, you might aspire to emulate your favourite fisting porn-stars and take a guy’s arm up to his armpit, but that takes a lot of practice.

Start off with some toys – gradually getting bigger in length and girth. You need to know how to open your hole and get it ready for more.

Just because it looks easy in a porn scene doesn’t mean that it’s going to be easy in real life.

Manage your the other guy’s expectations

There’s no shame in being a beginner at anything – that includes fisting. Don’t pretend to be an expert fister or fistee if you’re not. Be open and honest about where you’re at on your fisting journey.

Guys that are into fisting generally love to talk about fisting and discuss every aspect. Get involved in the conversation.

Become a lube expert

High quality toys are expensive – you’re looking at high-grade silicone that is soft and feels good when you shove it up your ass.

Some lubes can damage your toys. Make sure you read any instructions that come with the toys. Water-lubes are generally a safe bet, but aren’t necessarily the most fun to play with.

Fisting generally requires different lube to what you’re using with your toys or when you’re just fucking. The old-school classic is Crisco, but there are specialty fisting lubes on the market. You’re going to want to experiment and find what works best for you.

Some guys will wear gloves when they’re fisting you. This can help reduce the risk of infections or scratches.

Not everyone is into fisting

There’s obviously more extreme kinks out there, but some guys aren’t into fisting. Some guys might even try to kink-shame you for being into fisting. Kink-shaming isn’t cool, but if the guy that you’re hooking up with isn’t into fisting, then there’s plenty of other things that you can do together.

Tackle fisting with a clear head

You’re probably going to want some poppers on hand, but try and avoid any other substances or alcohol when you’re planning a fisting session.

If you’re drunk or high, you might not realise when you’re pushing your body beyond its limits.

Trust is the essential starting point

Fisting is incredibly intimate and requires a high level of trust. You’re probably going to want to try and find regular fisting buddies that you can connect with and explore fisting with on a regular basis.

You’re less likely to hurt yourself if you’re exploring with someone who knows your limits and is able to read your body-language.

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