Everyone likes a bit of butt-play, right?

Even if you consider yourself a “total top”, at some point you’re going to discover that your prostate is where the fun is at.

So, let’s talk toys.

Why is the prostate our pleasure point?

It’s worth taking a moment to study up on your anatomy and figure out where your prostate is.

In purely functional terms, your prostate plays a part in the reproductive process, and it also plays a role in switching between urination and ejaculation.

It’s a part of your body where there’s a concentration of nerve-endings and it’s kind of hard-wired into the pleasure receptors in your brain. If you stimulate your prostate, you’re going to feel that pleasure throughout your body.

How do you stimulate your prostate?

Once you’ve figured out where it is – pretty much between your anus and pelvis – you then need to figure out the best way to get to it.

You can use your fingers – or someone else’s fingers – but you need to be careful of fingernails and you might find it difficult to reach where you need to get to.

That’s why dildos and various toys are a popular choice. Prostate massages are specially designed to hit the angles required to really make contact with your prostate.

How do I choose the best prostate massager?

Everyone’s body is a bit different, so what works for one guy isn’t necessarily going to work for another. You’re probably going to need to try a few different options until you find your preferred toy.

However, getting recommendations from friends or hook-ups is a useful starting point.

Plus, you’re going to want to go for quality – don’t look for the cheapest option.

As well as manual toys, there are also plenty of electric options. It’s probably best to start with a manual massager and then progress to an electric model if that’s where you want to take things.

How do I use a prostate massager?

If you’re just at the experimenting stage, this is best done by yourself when you can take your time and really get acquainted with your body.

Make sure you’ve got some good quality lube to help the process.

Take it slowly – be patient, you don’t want to just ram a toy up your ass and hope for the best. Lube yourself up, get relaxed and ready and then start to use the toy gently to see how your body responds.

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