One of the amazing things about a platform such as Gaydar.net is that it enables you to connect with all sorts of guys, in all different parts of the world.
As you scroll through the profiles of the members of Gaydar.net, it quickly becomes apparent that we’re a diverse bunch of men.
We’re all into different things. Different things turn us on.
We love it when our members get in touch to share their sexual confessions and their secret fantasies. Some guys just want to tell someone and leave it at that – others want to share their fantasies with the world.
Here’s some of the things that our members asked us to share.
DikDad – Toronto, Ontario
“The memorable ones are the hook-ups with repeats…” explains DikDad. “Guys who took the time to chat, become acquainted, communicate, take their time. I had an affair of over a year with a beautiful man I met on Gaydar.”
“Focus the language on your profile to what you are looking for, what you do like…” advises DikDad. “What does the guy look like that’s going to flip your switch? Guys enjoy the chase. They want to prowl and pursue and feel they’ve won a prize.”
“My hook-up fantasy is to bottom for a guy with a dick exactly like mine. I wonder what it feels like. I get call-backs constantly because of my dick and topping methods. I want to know what the magic is!”
JoshBoy – Orlando, Florida
“I started using Gaydar nearly seven years ago…” explains JoshBoy. “It was when the urge to be part of my favourite porno’s cum shot loop became more and more irresistible. I couldn’t resist or suppress the rising want within me to feel a man cumming all over my face, and ass.”
“I meet so many like-minded men – I feel like part of a community…” adds JoshBoy. “One of my favourite encounters was while on a road trip. I found myself exceedingly horny, and started contacting all the tops that were in the vicinity. I found one top who couldn’t host, but knew of a housing construction site near him where we would have complete privacy. He mounted me in the dirt, and finished with me flat on my stomach – covered in filth, and sweet, sticky, cum.”
“Another of my favourite encounters was at a bathhouse…” adds JoshBoy. “I’d arranged to meet a guy there – I’d never been to a bathhouse before, so I didn’t know what to expect. The guy I was supposed to hook-up with was a no-show, but I hooked up with about eight different guys while I was there. At one point, I looked over my shoulder to see who was fucking me, and there was a line of men with their dicks in their hand, waiting for my ass and mouth.”
“My ultimate hook-up fantasy is always a group of men doing what they do best when they have a willing, and eager bottom to share amongst them! I’d love to be fucked by a group of men somewhere out in nature – against a tree, or driven into the dirt as one after another they all take turns enjoying me.”
HungTop – Milton Keynes, England
“The most memorable moments are the ones where everything clicks…” says HungTop. “The situations where everyone is sexually
compatible, and everyone walks away totally satisfied and fulfilled.”
“Living in a small city like Milton Keynes, you can narrow down your search to a select few that you have amazing sexual encounters with every time…” adds HungTop. “The more you see your regular buddies, the better the sex gets. You’re both compatible, comfortable, and open to exploring each others’ interests and desires.”
“My ultimate fantasy is to have sex outside in the summer months – a secluded beach, or secluded island, in the woods, or a corn-field close to town.”
BellEnd – Southampton, England
BellEnd started using Gaydar in 2018.
“Flirting is really good…” says BellEnd. “Eyeing up guys who really turn you on. I masturbate every day and night – either on my own or on camera with other guys.”
IrishEyes – Dublin
“I use Gaydar to hook-up with guys for random play…” explains IrishEyes. “I’m a power-bottom, and the guys that fuck me are mostly bi and married.”
“The first place I meet a guy from Gaydar was at a public bathroom. I was under a stall, and I started sucking his huge 10-inch cock. Then he told me to stick my fat ass under. He spat on my hole and slid in. He called me a whore, and said that I was taking his loads because his wife wouldn’t.”
“My ultimate fantasy is to be tied up and blindfolded, and used by at least 30 tops – fucking me, pissing on and in me, cumming in me, spitting on me, calling me a pig and a slut. They video the whole thing and post it on all the sex sites.”
Mitch14 – Brooklyn, New York
“The most memorable hook-ups are men who are unafraid…” explains Mitch14. “Men who top me, men who jerk off on my butt or in my mouth, and those guys who have an awesome time breeding me. So many men, so many different techniques.”
HornyBiBoy – Brussels
“I’m actually bi, and I’ve been trying to experiment…” explains HornyBiBoy. “But I actually haven’t really been with another guy yet.”
“My fantasy is that I want a group of guys just giving me all the attention, and me satisfying each one of them with my ass and mouth.”
DanDan46 – London, Ontario
“I use sign language and write on paper to communicate with guys…” says DanDan46, explaining how he arranges hook-ups with guys in Ontario. “I’m always searching for sex with men.”
MarriedMormonDude – Phoenix, Arizona
“The closest I’ve come to hooking up was an an adult bookstore…” says MarriedMormonDude. “I was standing in the doorway of one of the theatres. A hot guy came up behind me and started grabbing my ass. He played around with it for while and was grinding his cock against me. After a while, he tried to undo my belt and I told him no. I walked into the bookstore area and he followed me. I told him I’ve never done anything with a guy before. After chatting we went to the arcade area. He asked to see my ass and I showed him. After I pulled up my pants, he took out his cock and asked me to stroke him. I said I couldn’t. He then asked to see my ass again. I did and he pushed his hips against my bare ass and we were grinding for a few minutes. I was so turned on. If he would have reached up and played with my nipples I would have let him fuck my virgin ass right there.”
“My fantasy is to visit a bathhouse in Phoenix. I go in and walk around. Someone comes over and introduces himself and we talk for awhile. As we enter a dark area, he starts to kiss me. I tell him I’ve never done that, or been with a guy. We walk around some more and he can’t keep his hands off me. We end up in his private room. He gets out some lube and warms me up. I didn’t notice there was a sling in the room. He says it will feel much better if I’m in the sling. I get in and he keeps fingering me. Finally he says I’m ready. He slowly works his cock into my tight ass. The whole time, I’m moaning. Eventually I can tell he’s getting close. I tell him to fuck me harder and to breed my married Mormon ass. I can feel him explode deep inside me. As he pulls out, I notice the door was open and people were watching. Another guy walks up and say he wants a shot at my married ass before I get sent home to my prude Mormon wife.”
Kezzy – Belleville, Ontario
“I love to be gang-fucked repeatedly…” says Kezzy, who’s been a Gaydar member for about ten years. “Having my man-cunt filled is the ultimate.”
handsondix – Cottonwood, Arizona
“I like viewing all the hot bods in my area and beyond…” says handsondix, a Gaydar member for about eight years. “Mailing or chatting with guys, and working out a rendezvous if and when we match. I’ve found that it takes a man to know what really turns a man on, and I’ve been willing to try more and more kink as time goes on.”
“My ultimate hook-up would be to unknowingly walk into a home where there were at least five studly men waiting for me. These guys would grab me and strip me down while carrying me out to the yard, where they would string me up between two posts – spread-eagle. Each would then strip naked and begin using me, each in his own way. Their cocks would be big and beautiful and I would start drooling with the desire to suck each one to throbbing hardness. This orgy would last for hours, and when they had all worn out my ass, cock, and balls, they would release me only after I pledged to suck each of their massive, hard cocks to completion multiple times. At the end, my ass would be sore and dripping cum, my belly would be full of sweet cum, and I’d be cum-soaked from head to toe.”
mexicancaribbean – Cozumel, Mexico
“I like older men as they’re very nice lovers…” explains MexicanCaribbean, a Gaydar member for a couple of years. “I like to meet guys who are travelling – hook-ups and good times. I can show guys my island, and the beaches here. It’s famous for coral reefs, we go snorkelling.”
bottom1955 – Victoria, British Columbia
“I started using Gaydar when I moved from Vancouver to Victoria, about 12 years ago…” explains bottom1955. “It’s very closeted here.”
“I have a boyfriend, and we play as a duo or as singles – it works very well for us. We started as a duo, and have branched off to being an open relationship.”
“Most memorable hook-up was when I learned that I like to be fisted – who knew? My fantasy would be a dungeon leather group – bareback breeding, anything-goes session with muscled guys who have monster uncut cocks.”
flamingkisser – Adelaide, South Australia
“I’m a total bottom – I love to be topped…” says flamingkisser. “I love a lot of touching, massage, kissing, oral, and being rimmed. I love to have my nipples licked and kissed.”
“My most memorable hook-up was with a bodybuilder. He invited me over to hive him a sensual massage. He was really aroused, and when the massage was nearly over he asked if he could cum onto my body. He came all over my chest.”
jeff369 – Hilton Head Island, South Carolina
“I enjoy being with men…” says jeff369. “I let the situation flow when I’m with someone but, in general, I prefer to bottom. I also enjoy sucking on cocks and balls. I’m really into touching and kissing, slowly moving to 69, then to being rimmed. I enjoy laying on my back, legs spread wide, and watching my partner slowly insert. I want him laying on top and having his tongue explore my mouth. I love to watch his face as he cums.”
“I like bathhouses – I enjoy the feeling of being with naked men. Unlike a web hook-up or meeting in a bar, all the men there know what they want. One memorable bathhouse encounter was with a guy who made me cum a huge load. Once I’d cum, he lowered his mouth and licked up the cum – following the trail up my stomach. With his mouth full of cum, he lay on top of me and snowballed me – I couldn’t get enough of my cum and his tongue.”
Azurlad – Sitges, Spain
“My fetish is voyeurism…” says Azurlad.
“My most memorable hook up was recently when I met a couple who are into rope-tying and bondage – blindfolded and tied. This really turned me on, and we got some good pictures from it. My ultimate hook-up fantasy is a couple of bi married guys or a leather daddy using me.”
TonyTakesLoads – London, England
“I don’t remember how old I was, but I’ll never forget when I first laid eyes on my stepfather laying in bed, the sheet only covering part of his naked body…” says TonyTakesLoads. “The nervousness and excitement I felt looking at the blondish hair on his chest and stomach. My tentative approach, as I lightly lifted the sheet to expose the most beautiful flaccid thick cock, resting on balls hanging so low between his legs as they rested on the bed.”
“My stepfather used to lay around in his boxer shorts. One morning, while my mother was still asleep, he was lying on the couch in his boxers and white t-shirt. As he seemed to be asleep, I quietly moved closer to look at the bulge of his balls against his inner-thigh. The fly of his boxers was open just enough to see some reddish-blond pubic hair.”
“My heart pounding and my young cock hard, I softly asked — ’Are you awake?”’ – pausing for an answer before quietly saying his name, still with no response. I moved closer until I was next to him. Shaking inside, I used my fingers to gently open the fly of his boxers more, until I could see the base of his soft cock, the rest hidden below the opening.”
“I looked to see if his eyes were still closed, I was reassured by his stillness that he was still asleep As gently as I could, I pulled his cock out of the opening in his shorts, the perfectly-shaped mushroom head and his shaft appearing before me. I could feel the weight of it in my hand as it slowly hardened. It was soon completely hard and my hand couldn’t reach around it’s thickness – I was nervous but in awe at the strength and beauty of it.”
“I looked again to his face to catch a flutter of his eyes. Was he awake? Was I caught? Unable to tuck the now stiff cock back in the way I had freed it, I had to lift the band of his boxers to return it inside.”
“Once done, I was shaking. My own cock stiff, I retreated to my room where I stroked my cock thinking about what I’d just done and seen, wishing that I’d had the nerve to put it in my mouth. I came quickly.”
“The first balls I ever sucked were my brother’s. I wasn’t yet a teenager, he was probably 16 or 17. One night, while he was asleep In his classic white briefs, I slid up between his legs, lifted the leg band of those briefs and gently worked his balls out. They were hanging loose, and smelled of freshly applied talc powder.”
“I was 16 the first time a guy came in my mouth. He’d already given me head and drained my balls. I continued to suck on his hard cock, going as far down the shaft as I could. His moans grew louder, and then his body stiffened as his load of hot cum shot into the back of my mouth.”
PeterP27 – Glasgow, Scotland
“My fist date was with a soldier…” says PeterP27. “I was 17 he was 27.”
“I’d gone to a gay bar. You had to be 18 to get in, but I’d convinced the doorman that I was 18.”
“I met the soldier in the bar. He took me back to the barracks. He stripped me off, got me to stand up against his bedroom wall, then forced his big cock into my tight ass. He then pumped away until he shot all his spunk into me.”
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I’ve left a bunch on sites and all true as I’m not a fraud like many bores people out there. It somewhat helps the guilt a bit. Best to do in person but that not always possible or sane. Some bad ones as were all the same and have skeletons.
The more I read of others though sometimes the better I feel. Some are fake of course, but assuming they’re all fake, you’re naive. We’re all monsters, hypocrites, or wimps in some form. Why not let it out if not able to the right way? I’ve recently told a couple women the straight dope. They weren’t pleased but they deserved the truth. It helps. Own your bs.