If you are someone who feels like a long or thick dildo would be incredibly satisfying, then a large dildo may just be the toy you’ve been looking for to add pleasure into your bedroom.
When you hop into the world of large dildos, it’s important to take it slow and play it safe. The thing about this type of dildos is that they can be much larger than anything a playmate in the bedroom would have in their pants for playtime. Large dildos can be larger than the typical dildo, but can also be as large as a fist! Don’t let that intimidate you – these adult toys come in a variety of sizes, shapes, lengths, and thicknesses. Some may be short but thick, some may be long but skinny. Others may be like fists, and others still could be long enough for two to use at the same time! Either way, the size enhancement will enhance the pleasure and sensation as well.
If you want to step up your dildo collection, a large dildo is just the way to do it. We have some tips and tricks to keep your experimentation pleasurable instead of painful during your large dildo experimentation.
As always, using a lot of lubricant is one of the most important aspects.
When it comes to large dildos, it is important to remember that just like regular dildos, they should add internal pleasure and satisfaction to your life. However, large dildos are larger than the usual dildo and will definitely cause some stretching, especially when they are first being used inside of you. This means that not using lubricant could cause tears and pain, which is far from pleasurable.
It’s also important to use the right kind of lubricant with the material of the large dildo that you have purchased. Water based lubricants are the safest and best choice that you can make, because it is safe with all materials and condoms. However, if you want to use it anally, a silicone based lubricant could be better and more beneficial as it is thicker and will help it insert and glide more.
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Remember to take the large dildo slow and don’t try to fit it all in at once.
With large dildos, you want to try to start slowly. It does not need to all fit in at first. This is especially true if you’ve chosen a large dildo that is also more girthy, as the girth causes most of the stretching. You want to take your time to make sure your body is ready for that larger dildo that you’ve purchased. You won’t have a good experience if you end up hurting yourself for no reason! Don’t rush, and remember, foreplay is necessary- even during self pleasure time. In fact, using a smaller vibrator or dildo to warm up can actually be some of the best foreplay, and adding lubricant from the start can help your body get ready to make its own lubricant as well!
If you are fully aroused and ready, then you are ready to start with a larger dildo. You can even have sex with your partner before hand, to arouse you and loosen things up! But once you’re ready, make sure you are in a comfortable position to try to begin using your large dildo.
For some, you may find that laying on your back is the most comfortable position. Others may prefer to squat over the dildo so that you can control the depth and speed. Whatever makes you feel the most comfortable is the most important thing! Plus, once you have the widest portion of the dildo in your body, it’ll be much easier to take more. Be slow, let your body relax, and allow yourself to enjoy the sensations and the stretch.
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Enjoy the sensations and explore the stretch!
Once you have the dildo inside of your body, continue to take it slow and use a lot of lubricant! Some may enjoy the feeling of thrusting the large dildo in and out, while others may enjoy twisting it to stimulate every side of their internal pleasure zones. Others may enjoy wiggling it to make it touch the cervix and G Spot. Remember, there is no wrong or right way to play with a large dildo – just ensure you don’t go too fast, so as not to harm or injure yourself. This should be a pleasurable experience, not a harmful one.
Large dildos can also create a stimulation of a filled up feeling, which can stimulate and cause sensation on your internal vaginal walls. It is something some fantasize about – in fact, they sell fist shaped dildos to really enhance the experience. Be sure to listen to your body, and that it isn’t telling you to stop. You want to enjoy your first large dildo experience.
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What do I do if it hurts?
If the large dildo is causing you to feel pain, or even minor discomfort, stop using it right away. Your body has limits, and it might not be time to use it full on yet! Like we always say, slower is better.
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Will using a large dildo make me permanently loose?
There is a common misconception that using a large dildo might permanently stretch the vagina or cause it to be loose. However, this is far from true. The vagina is naturally stretchy – consider that many give birth vaginally. Your vagina will bounce back with the normal tightness you had before after a day or so.
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