We caught up with some of the men of BateWorld.com – an online masturbation community for men – to get to grips with their jack-off techniques.

Atlas420

Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?

I was about 12 or 13. I overheard some guys on the bus talk about how to do it and went home and had to try that night!

How did you feel when you first jacked off?

It felt weird, but I knew I liked it.

Did you talk about it with anyone?

Some guys would make jokes about it at school and we’d all laugh about it. But it took a while before I had friends who were comfortable actually talking about our first times and how we did it.

Did you try any different techniques in those early years?

Oh yeah, I was trying all kinds of stuff! Pillow and mattress humping, jerking off with olive oil versus Vaseline, and I even tried making my own Fleshlight!

How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?

It’s levelled off a bit – I keep it under a bit more control now. For the most part, it hasn’t changed. I watch a lot more porn now, and edge far more often.

What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?

Either my Fleshlight or just my greased-up palm!

What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?

Just relax and enjoy yourself. Learning what makes you feel good and what you like is very important so take your time. Try different things, but be safe and make smart choices even if you’re horny! And lastly, don’t forget lube – very important!

BigStiffy

Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?

Yes, I was about 11 or 12 – I was about to shower. After figuring out what sex was, I thought I could do the same with my hand, so I did. I didn’t cum then, but I also remember the first time I did cum – it freaked me out.

How did you feel when you first jacked off?

Guilty. I thought it was wrong because we never talked about sex in my family.

Did you talk about it with anyone?

No. I had great parents and four older siblings, but it just wasn’t something we talked about. I was also too embarrassed to talk to my friends about it.

Did you try any different techniques in those early years?

Not early on. I shared a room with my brother until 10th grade. But after that, I sure did – humping the bed, humping pillows, switching hands. Nothing too crazy.

How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?

Once the internet came into my life, the world opened up. Porn was readily available, toys started becoming a bit more normalised. But honestly, there’s nothing better than the good old-fashioned hand-on-dick with lots of lube.

What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?

Trolling porn with a jar of Albolene at my side on my couch in my bate den with AirPlay streaming to the big screen TV.

What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?

Never feel guilty or ashamed that you jack-off. Everyone does it. It’s completely normal and healthy and a great way to discover more about your sexual desires. It’s a personal experience – until you are comfortable enough to share it with a bud – so just let yourself go and enjoy it. Explore your fantasies, your body, your likes, your dislikes. No one will judge you because it’s just between you and your dick.

BrotherBator

Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?

I’d had earlier masturbation experiences before then, but the first time that I remember getting into the traditional grab-and-stroke technique was in my early teens – a very amateur lotion-in-hand session.

How did you feel when you first jacked off?

Huge panic because I didn’t have an actual ejaculation, just a pre-cum overflow spill. I thought that I’d pissed myself!

Did you talk about it with anyone?

Not to anyone in person because among peers it was only mentioned when joking and teasing each other about it. But as soon as I learned the proper term, I did immediately look into internet forums about masturbation.

Did you try any different techniques in those early years?

I experimented with steady paced strokes, alternating from my dominant hand.

How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?

Definitely more expansive. Aside from sex-toy gear that I now have access to, I now know how to tune my whole body into the experience rather than going for an immediate grab-and-stroke to race to the finish line.

What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?

Long delayed edging. I like to start a session, get my dick fully erect and teased with a bate session, then wind it down without ejaculating. Highly prefer to only bust one when I’m with another bate buddy.

What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?

Own your masturbation as a valid sexual outlet. Be upfront enough to let potential partners and sex-positive friends know that it’s a part of your sexual enjoyment.

DragonPuppy3

Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?

I was 12 or 13.

How did you feel when you first jacked off?

It was like talking to God. Amazing! Like I imagine surfing would be.

Did you talk about it with anyone?

I told one close friend that I discovered something amazing.

Did you try any different techniques in those early years?

Yes! I started by fucking a latex glove and graduated to using my hand. Over the next few years, I tried to get off in as many ways as possible. I’m pretty creative.

How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?

I have slowed down a lot and learned to extend my pleasure. I masturbate to get as much pleasure as possible, not just to get off.

What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?

I like to use my hands on my whole body and I use organic coconut oil. I become extremely relaxed and I take my time building up the pleasure in my body by stroking my penis with every stroke imaginable.

What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?

Honour your Penis as the sacred thing that it is. Treat it well and it will generously reward you. Take your time and have fun exploring yourself. Use your masturbation session as a self-love practice. Relax and let yourself fill all the way up with bliss.

MasturOfMyBate

Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?

I was a pre-teen the first time I jacked off. I remember watching this really hot video of a guy doing it, so I wanted to do it too! Five cum-shots later, I knew I was a bator.

How did you feel when you first jacked off?

I felt great! It was something I had never felt before, but I knew I wanted to do it again.

Did you talk about it with anyone?

At the time I didn’t. I felt like it was something I shouldn’t be doing.

Did you try any different techniques in those early years?

For the most part, I liked jacking off on my back, full spread on my bed. Then, I graduated to standing up, and squatting. It wasn’t until a little later down the road that I did different techniques.

How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?

Over the years, I’ve grown more comfortable with who I am as a bator. So now, my style is very intimate with myself and those I connect with. Zoom rooms and things like that only do so much for me. I prefer one-on-one or small groups as much as possible.

What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?

My preferred way is sitting up, legs spread, and greased up.

What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?

I would say give yourself time to grow and get to know your penis. It isn’t a marathon, unless you’re pressed for time. Otherwise, edge until you can’t anymore.

ProudBator

Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?

I remember my first bate but not very clearly, been so long!

How did you feel when you first jacked off?

One thing I remember well, it felt amazing and I wanted more.

Did you talk about it with anyone?

Yes, I told my school buddies at the time, and – to my surprise – they were all in the same boat as me and willing do it together as a group.

Did you try any different techniques in those early years?

Not at that stage but there were competitions between me and my mates on who would ejaculate first or who would have the strongest ejaculation. It was really a collaborative experience for me and I felt safe to express myself.

How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?

My jack-off style has evolved a lot ever since I started and is still evolving today. I know now how my body works and what works for me in all aspects, from start to finish of a masturbation session.

What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?

My favourite way to masturbate nowadays is with lubes and oils. The wetter the better, and the more noises the hotter.

What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?

My number one advice for someone starting out with masturbation is to take their time and have quality time with their penis as opposed to rushing through to an orgasm. It’s all about the journey not the final destination.

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We caught up with Carlo Dammit and asked him a few personal questions.

Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?

The first time I remember masturbating I was 9 or 10, in 4th grade. For a while I’d already been having oral sex and stroking with a neighbour kid who was a couple of years older than me. It was in the bathroom. I didn’t know how to jerk myself off yet, so I used a velvet covered ring box to rub against my cock.

How did you feel when you first jacked off?

At that time, I could get an erection and feel good when stimulated but I couldn’t actually cum. When I got to the point where I would have cum, I had the feeling you get when you’re almost ready to cum but it ended with an anxiety-type feeling.

Did you talk about it with anyone?

I don’t remember talking to anyone about it.

Did you try any different techniques in those early years?

When I learned how to stroke myself and use lube, I remember using shaving cream as lube while I was stroking in the bathtub.

Can you remember the first time you talked to someone else about jacking off?

I’ve never really discussed details about it with anyone, other than it happens. It’s no secret that I jerk off.

How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?

It’s become more pleasurable. I’ve learned to explore all parts of my body with my free hand, to make it more intense.

What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?

I generally jerk off, and use the other hand to play with my nipples, rub my body, pull on my balls, and massage prostrate. I usually watch videos or jerk off with my friend on cam. Visual and audio stimulation helps a lot.

What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?

Don’t feel guilty. It’s natural. Don’t believe the stories that only gays jerk off — if that’s even still a thing. Explore different parts of your body to see which places feel good to touch. If you’re masturbating on cam, sexting, or on a phone, it can be fun to fantasy role-play things that you wouldn’t actually do in real life.

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