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Matthew Mitcham tackles the struggle with sex and drugs

By Means Happy Newsdesk
February 6, 2023
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When it comes to sport, nothing quite holds our attention like a gay diver, and Matthew Mitcham from Australia is one of the best gay divers that the world has ever seen.

Mitcham may no longer be competing, but we’re still following his every move very closely.
In a recent interview with Pink News, Mitcham reflected on his past battles with addiction and shared how he is using that experience to help those struggling with issues resulting from chemsex.
Mitcham reveals that he initially turned to drugs to try and cope with his struggles with depression as a teenager. After his success at the 2008 Olympics in Beijing, Mitcham continued to struggle with his mental health.

“All that stuff came back with vengeance after Beijing…” explains Mitcham. “I shamed myself a lot for having depression and for feeling the way I felt because I felt like it was unjustified. I was so ashamed – that really prevented me from getting help, so I went back to using the same coping mechanisms that I’d used before to change the way I felt, which was drugs. I just felt so badly about myself – and so I guess the drugs helped me to switch my mind off, to get through the day.”

Eventually, realising that he needed help, Mitcham checked into rehab.

“The drinking and the drugging were a symptom of depression rather than the other way around…” explains Mitcham, reflecting on how his time in rehab helped to bring some perspective to his addiction struggles. “For me it’s all about self-esteem. I used to have such poor self-esteem that I was completely dependent on all of these external sources to make myself feel better. Using drink and drugs is a really powerful way to change the way you feel. Going to rehab, I learned lots of other tools to change the way I feel – much more effective ways to change the way I feel – that don’t have these added consequences.”

Now, sober for seven years, Mitcham is volunteering with London-based charity Controlling Chemsex to try and help others. Controlling Chemsex provides support to people who use drugs to enhance sex.

“Every single week I will hear stories of boys who are scared of having sex because it’s so triggering for them…” explains Mitcham. “I’m very passionate about helping people who do have these issues because it is insidious. People should be able to have sex without the shackles of having to be high.”

If you, or a friend or loved one, is struggling with chems, contact Controlling Chemsex to find out what support is available in your area.

Who is Matthew Mitcham?

Born in 1988 and growing up in Brisbane, Queensland, Mitcham began his sporting career in competitive trampoline.
As a trampolinist, Mitcham represented Australia at the World Junior Championships in 1999 and 2001, winning the double mini-tramp event. He also competed at the Australian Youth Olympic Festival in 2003, finishing sixth.
He was talent-spotted by the head coach of the Australian diving team, and encouraged to try turning his acrobatic skills to the sport of diving.
Mitcham began competing in major diving events from 2002, when he became national junior champion. He continued to progress through international competitions, competing at Grand Prix events, World Championships, and the Commonwealth Games.

2008 Summer Olympics

Mitcham represented Australia at the 2o08 Summer Olympics, held in Beijing. He competed in the 10m platform, and the 3m springboard events.
In the springboard event, Mitcham didn’t qualify for the final.
In the 10m platform, Mitcham made it through to the final of the competition, and entered the final round of dives sitting in second place. Leading the competition was Zhou Luxin, representing China. With Zhou having completed all of his dives, with his final dive Mitcham needed to score 107.30 in order to win the gold. Mitcham’s near-perfect final dive achieved a score of 112.10 – the highest single-dive score in Olympic history, and enough to secure him the Olympic gold medal.

Life after diving

After competing in the 2012 Olympics, Mitcham announced his retirement from competitive diving in 2016.
He has subsequently been focusing on a career in entertainment – including television appearances and a cabaret show.

The relationship

Mitcham and Luke Rutherford had been dating for six months before they announced their engagement.
“We didn’t really make an impression on each other at first. It was kind of a slow burn relationship…” Mitcham told Q News, explaining that they had met through mutual friends in Sydney.
After travelling around Australia together, the couple moved to London.
Soon after, Mitcham posted the news of their engagement to Instagram:
“He got down on both knees, I said yes, and now we’re engaged.”
Updating his Instagram, Mitcham confirmed that the response to the news of his engagement to Rutherford was overwhelmingly positive:
“I wish I could say I’m humbled by the response we’ve received but the attention seeker in me is LIVING. Thank you for all the kind messages. I wish I could respond to each one individually but I’ve got my big fat gay wedding to plan. I’ll heart each message to let you know I’ve read and appreciated your kind words.”
The couple were subsequently married in Belgium.
Mitcham wrote on Instagram:
“After a sustained period of lovely gestures, loyalty, gazing adoringly and many trips to Ikea, I managed to trick @lukeyluke8 into falling in love with me, proposing to me and finally marrying me. Now he’s stuck with me forever and ever, ha!”
Following the wedding, the couple travelled to Amsterdam for their honeymoon.

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