My Dating Life
I caught up with Paulo César Ebbano Moreira to talk dating disasters, triumphs, and how to meet new people.
Can you remember your first date with a guy?
I don’t really remember a first date. I was having sex with guys in saunas or public bathrooms. I was also going out with escorts. It took me a while to find someone that really loved me.
When you’re dating, how do you typically meet guys?
I usually meet guys through dating apps – whether it’s for friendship or sex. I like the way that you can use dating apps to connect with different guys all around the world.
After meeting someone through a dating app, my next is usually to arrange to have dinner with them so we can get to know each other a bit better.
What have been some of your dating highs and lows?
The high was definitely a German guy – he was amazing. We fell in love.
The low was probably a guy from London that I was dating. He was cheating on me.
For someone who was just starting to explore dating in the LGBTQ world, what advice or guidance would you give them?
Don’t have sex on the first date. Respect yourself. Sex is better when it’s with someone that you love.
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