We are all about having a good time. Good times with friends, eating, drinking, dancing or just hanging out together. Holidays, city breaks, Prides or other festivals are also high on list the of fun times. Another thing we are big fans of here at esmale is to give our bodies & mind a good time through some adult play. Most of the time this involves another man, or more. Not many things are better than some solid flesh on flesh action to make you feel in good spirits. There are however times that some solo play can very much be something that puts a big smile on your face! Often, we have customers that use their solo play to experiment or explore what their body likes and can handle. Other times it is more about training and preparation for the next “play date”. Most often though it is just about having a good time playing with yourself. Here are some examples.

Exploring your body

It is great to see many customers enjoying their journey in discovering what their bodies enjoy. Often, they explore our dildos for men range to see how large, deep or wide they can go. Other journeys focus on sounding, nipple play or cock and ball pleasure. But I think the most popular is the journey into the most intense orgasm. In many ways some of the above “journeys” are all working towards that as well. The trick is listening to your body and push it in the direction that truly makes you tingle which ultimately will end up in an amazing climax. Stimulating your P-spot in combination with manhood tools like a masturbator has proven to be a successful route to putting a massive smile on your face.

Training and preparation

A lot of our customers take their sexual desires and encounters very seriously. It is not always just about picking someone up and having a good time or playing with your partner. Getting the maximum out of your play time can sometimes require preparation and we are not talking about just having an anal douche and bringing your best poppers and favourite lube.

We see a lot of anal training whether it is depth training with a gut-snake or a long anal toy, or a butt plug to loosen up a bit for the play ahead. Chastity cages are also a great way to build up the tension and excitement. To make sure that your manhood is at maximum size you can use a penis pump or why not where a “bigger bulge” cock ring for extra erotic effect. In short there are so many ways to train and prepare for an encounter and getting yourself ready is a fun time itself, so it is a double winner. Just make sure you wear some sexy gay underwear or something more fetishy or BDSM related gear, just to spice it all up even more.

Self-love!

This one is rather self-explanatory. More and more people are taking out time for some self-love. This applies to mind, body, and soul. At esmale we focus on the body part, and I am not talking about going to the gym. On a regular basis just have a play with yourself that is more than masturbating. But If masturbating is your thing, then why not take it up a notch. There are some amazing new vibrating real feel or electro sex masturbators out there that will take it to the next level. Talking about electro sex, have a go at it, it is shockingly satisfying. For the anal lovers why not have treat yourself to a rotating or self-thrusting dildo. Some of our prostate massagers have more than 10 vibrating settings that will hit your P-spot perfectly. So much so that your neighbours might just hear you getting yourself to a climax. Something I only learned recently is that people wear a butt-plug or cock ring all day long or at least for long periods of time. A great way to erotically charge the day.

Overall, it really is all about exploring yourself and really setting some time aside give your body what it loves. You feed yourself when you are hungry so why not nurture your body and mind when it is graving something else?

If you have any questions or want more information, please feel free to contact us. You can find us in the following places.

• Gay Sex Gear > https://www.esmale.com/
• Poppers > https://www.poppersupershop.com/

With love
Team esmale

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