Why Men Love Anal Sex?
Statistically, about 30% of heterosexual men between 20 and 60 have tried anal sex. They are driven by completely different reasons.
He feels like a true conqueror when getting some passionate anal. And the “fortress” he is set to conquer is your butt. A man is a warrior by nature, and an ass is the most desirable treasure he wants to possess. And once you pass your sexual boundaries a bit (if you have any), his self-esteem will skyrocket. He will do everything to preserve access to the “conquered territory”.
Before making a decision, let’s try to figure out why men want anal sex. Here are several reasons for this. Let’s start with the main ones.
As you know, domination is in men’s blood. Every day, they try to prove to themselves and those around them that they really are the stronger sex.
This is not limited to the career, business, or athletic hobbies – men also tend to dominate in relationships. And anal sex is the best way to feel complete power over your partner, to subdue them morally and physically. The point here is not some hidden sadistic tendencies – men just want to establish who is in charge.
Why Do Men Need Anal Sex?
When invading a forbidden area, the partner feels like the owner of the partner’s body, like the partner has surrendered their last defences. This raises self-esteem, and the man gains confidence from knowing that now his partner belongs to him completely.
Many consider consenting to anal sex the ultimate manifestation of love and trust – it’s a big step when you’re ready to submit and surrender to the power of a man in this way. The feeling of omnipotence and domination in such moments increases men’s self-esteem and relieves shyness.
Men like it when the bodies muscles grip the penis tightly during sex – there’s nowhere tighter than the anus.
The anus is not as wet, always narrow and velvety. For many, having anal sex resembles something forbidden, which excites their imaginations even more. It is not surprising that some members of the stronger sex prefer anal sex.
Men who have problems with potency also insist on anal sex. A sedentary lifestyle, poor ecology, and other factors of modern life contribute to the fact that by the age of 30, many young people have trouble maintaining an erection.
Everything is very narrow down there, which means you can last longer and experience an increased pleasure.
Anal sex for men is the ultimate way to relax. Every man dreams of experiencing continuous pleasure. The ability to ejaculate right inside has a very positive effect on physiological processes and preserves a man’s psyche.
Variety in sexual relationships
Among the lovers of anal sex, there are a lot of those for whom oral sex is not enough. Trying to diversify their sexual life, they decide on new experiments, including anal sex. Variety and experimentation in bed are vital for men. Everybody gets bored with insipid and monotonous sex, even if they manage to finish every time.
Before Your Dive Into it
Anal sex is a special kind of intercourse that requires a proper preparation. Here’s what you need to know:
- Long and sensual foreplay, the top should certainly take some time to “set the stage”.
- Lubrication! Lots of it!
- Gentle, sensitive, and smooth process. A man should be as delicate as possible.
- Start small: first a finger, then a butt plug, and see how you feel – you may either need a larger plug to make the transition smoother or let the top “come in”.
- Don’t be afraid! Relax! You will get only so much pleasure you ready to accept.