Students, it is time to explore your adult desires!
Set yourself up for a good time.
Becoming a student is the start of many journeys. The most important one will be getting knowledge in your chosen field. In addition to that are your various journeys in personal development. One of which we like to focus on. As a company that sells sex toys, sexy wear, kink and has the best Poppers in the UK, the focus here will be on self-exploration from an adult angle and how male sex toys can help in this journey.
This is how it went for me
It has been a while since I was a student and strutting my stuff around Bristol, but I remember very well how I developed into a sexually active gay man.
As a shy young man, I arrived at Uni and was overwhelmed with all the stimulation. I had recently come out and was not used to interacting with other people as a fresh-faced young gay man. I was still a virgin, so my experiences were limited to the usage of an anal butt plug in combination with my favourite aroma, Iron fist Poppers. It was time to move to flesh-on-flesh action.
Without boring you with all my dating dramas, I finally had “my night” and it was OK. I was so nervous and keen to please that I forgot to enjoy myself and relax during the session. What I was happy with, is that I had some practice with a butt plug, it prepared me for what it could feel like, and it ensured the experience was not too painful.
If you are in a similar situation I would recommend experimenting with sex toys. By simulating a certain activity, you will feel better prepared. This will allow you to focus on enjoying the situation and not be “in your head” the whole time like I was.
What is your journey?
Eventually, after trial and error, I fully found my place and built enough confidence to freely be me and enjoy encounters with various other students and locals. I wish I could go back in time!
But, enough about me, what will your journey look like? What adult experience is it that you are after? What is that thing or fantasy you have in your mind that you want to happen in real life?
Being a student, in my experience, is the perfect time to explore all you want. Become the real you and start understanding what you like and dislike and along the road pick up some confidence.
I know it is easier said than done and for some people it will feel more natural than others to put yourself “out there”. I do believe in the saying “Face your fear and do it anyway”. This also applies to your adult pleasure journey.
As mentioned before, you can practice many things before you put them to the test. Whether it is testing the water with a dildo for men or experimenting with nipple suckers. Whatever floats your boat, we should have something in our store, also for the more BDSM and Kink-orientated students.
Go for it!
With the risk of sounding like an old man, your student time can be the making of you in many ways. After this period, life can potentially swallow you up. Sure, it will hopefully still be amazing but the freedom you have during your student time, even if you think it is not there, is there!
I hope you have the most amazing time exploring yourself, your body and your mind’s needs. Only do what you feel comfortable with and remember, it should be a good time and not be taken too seriously. Laugh at things that were not a hit or did not go as planned. As long as it is all within a consenting situation, enjoy it, have a giggle and a great time.
Here to help
Now for a bit of shameless self-promotion and hopefully to help you get the most out of the situation, come and visit our stores for some inspiration. All students get an extra 10% off with voucher code SAVE10. For all your adult tools and sexy gear please have a look at https://www.esmale.com/ and for all your poppers check out https://www.poppersupershop.com/
We have a great team of people in the office so feel free to call or email us. You can also use the contact forms in the store. We have truly heard it all and all questions are welcome.
With love
Team esmale
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