What’s a good gay romantic gift to give your man?

Gift ideas for your guy.

What’s a good gay romantic gift to give your man?

On one hand, gay men are very simple. We think with our dicks.

However, trying to establish and build and navigate a relationship with a gay man is no easy feat.

For some of us, our love language is gifts. If you're looking to buy your man something to show him how much he means to you, here's some suggestions.

Sexy underwear

Okay, this might seem a bit crass, but it’s not a bad move to buy your guy something a bit high-end that he wouldn’t normally wear.

A thong may not be something that he’s going to wear to the office, but it could be fun to try on and play around with on date-night?

A sex toy

Sure, sex-toys are often a go-to option when you’re by yourself, but they can be a lot of fun to enjoy together.

Try and surprise him with something a bit unexpected but that you’re confident he’s going to enjoy.

It could be a dildo, something vibrating, or maybe some stylish nipple clamps.

The gym bag

Don’t go for this unless your man is already a totally gym-head. This isn’t about trying to motivate someone to hit the gym, it’s about recognising that the gym is something he loves - you're looking for ways to enhance his work-out experience.

A new gym bag is always a bit of a treat, or there’s plenty of gym-related accessories that you could consider.

Slutty gym shorts are always a safe option.

Grooming goodness

A guy can never really have too many grooming products.

Put together a package of grooming goodies that are a pleasure to use and also smell good.

Look for things that he might want you to rub all over him.

Smell sensations

When it comes to sex, we’re often leading with our nose. If it smells good, we’re going to want to get right up close.

I'm a fan of boutique scent stores. Find something that’s similar to his current aftershave or whatever and then choose something that gives it a bit of a twist or takes it to the next level.

Knot a problem

If he’s ever expressed an interest in a bit of bondage role-play, why not find a way to explore that together.

One option is to hire a sex-worker who knows the ropes (literally) and get them to work with you both on how to tie each other up in knots that feel so good.

Silky sleepwear

You’re probably not wearing anything when you actually get into bed, but having some silky sleepwear is a treat for just lounging around the house.

Maybe it’s a luxurious robe, or some satiny trousers that are both comfortable and sexy.

Find something that makes it an appealing prospect to just spend the day together on the sofa.


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