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What's your sign?

Horoscopes for homos.

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Nov 21, 2024 — 7 min read

There's not a lot of science behind it, but throughout human history the stars have been a source of guidance - providing us with a framework that helps us to navigate through the cycles of time.

Sagittarius Season

We're about to enter Sagittarius season - beginning on 22 November and running through until 21 December.

Speaking on our podcast, How To Date Men, James Gaynor shares his insights regarding astrology.

We take a look at Sagittarius season, how the zodiac can influence our sex lives, and how we can use the stars to shape our sexual encounters.

Listen to the episode

Attributes:

Those born under the sign of Sagittarius tend to be optimistic and adventurous - open to the possibilities of anything that they encounter.

You would often describe the Sagittarian man as curious, independent, and needing to feel the freedom to be themselves and pursue their passions.

The symbol for Sagittarius is the archer - but it is the archer in the form of a centuar. A favourite of Greek Mythology, centaurs have a reputation as being lusty and wild. But the duality of archer and centaur deliberately aligns Sagittarians with Chiron - a centaur known for his wisdom and gift of teaching and mentoring.

You might find a Sagittarian man to be a bit complex or hard to get to know, but that's probably because of the duality of his nature - passionate and adventurous but also thoughtful and independent.

Who should have sex with Sagittarians?

It's never a bad idea to have sex with a Sagittarian guy - they're adventurous and open to trying new things. The downside of that is that you're going to need to keep challenging them or they could easily get bored.

Even if it's just a one-off kind of thing, you're going to need to make the proposition interesting - a basic hook-up is fine but it's not really going to capture the attention of a Sagittarian man.

The general consensus is that Aquarius is a good match for Sagittarius - in an opposites-attract kind of vibe.

The other strong match seems to be with Leo - a fellow Fire sign, a Leo and a Sagittarian are likely to generate a lot of heat. Sure, it probably won't last long, but it will be an intense and memorable encounter.

Who should Sagittarians avoid?

Sagittarians tend to struggle with guys born under the sign of Virgo. Virgo men generally like rules, order, discipline, whereas Sagittarians want the freedom to do it their own way - they're Centaurs who need to feel wild and free.

Looking for a third?

Sagittarians are a great option if you're looking for a third to add a bit of spice to your relationship. They're going to be up for trying anything, so if you are looking for someone to get a bit filthy with, these are your guys - they don't want it vanilla, they've done that.

The other plus-side of inviting a Sagittarian guy over for some fun is that they're not going to want to stick around. They want their freedom and independence - you won't have to cook them breakfast, they're already on the lookout for their next adventure.

The Zodiac

Sagittarius

Symbol: The Archer
Season: 22 November - 21 December

Capricorn

Symbol: The Goat
Season: 22 December - 19 January

Aquarius

Symbol: The Water Bearer
Season: 20 January - 18 February

Pisces

Symbol: The Fish
Season: 19 February - 20 March

Aries

Symbol: The Ram
Season: 21 March - 19 April

Taurus

Symbol: The Bull
Season: 20 April - 20 May

Gemini

Symbol: The Twins
Season: 21 May - 21 June

Cancer

Symbol: The Crab
Season: 22 June - 22 July

Leo

Symbol: Lion
Season: 23 July - 22 August

Virgo

Symbol: The Virgin
Season: 23 August - 22 September

Libra

Symbol: The scales
Season: 23 September - 23 October

Scorpio

Symbol: The Scorpion
Season: 24 October - 21 November

Scorpio Season

Speaking on our podcast, How To Date Men, James Gaynor takes a look at Scorpio season, how the zodiac can influence our sex lives, and how we can use the stars to shape our sexual encounters.

Listen to the episode

Attributes:

Those born under the sign of Scorpio are generally fairly intense. They tend to make good leaders - they're loyal and committed, but can be quite fiery and passionate. They tend to play their cards close to their chest. You do not want to cross a Scorpio - they do not forgive and they do not forget.

The symbol for Scorpio is the scorpion - which gives you a lot of information about the men that fall under this sign. While it's probably a bit literal to automatically associate Scorpio men with descriptions such as "deadly" or "sting in the tail", there is an intense spontaneity to Scorpios that feels aligned to their symbol - you know that you need to exercise caution but you're never quite sure what the red flags are or where the danger might come from.

Who should have sex with Scorpios?

Everyone. Everyone should have sex with Scorpios because it's generally pretty good - it's a star sign that's strongly associated with sexual energy.

When it comes to relationships, however, that's a different story. Not everyone is equipped to sustain an emotional connection with a Scorpio.

Scorpio is a water sign, so they tend to find the easiest match with fellow water signs such as Pisces and Cancer. But you should never say never with a Scorpio - they will often surprise you and find love and commitment in the most unlikely combinations.

Who should Scorpios avoid?

Scorpios tend to struggle with Leos, and often also struggle with the centaurs of Sagittarius. But there's not much point getting caught up in the technicalities of it all - start with a sexual encounter, if the sexual energy feels right then it might be worth seeing where that can take you.

Looking for a third?

Scorpios are the ideal third to add a bit of spice to your relationship.

If you're a couple looking to have some threesome fun, then the sexual energy embodied by a Scorpio is exactly what you're looking for. You probably won't want them to stay the night and you definitely don't want to cook them breakfast in the morning, but they're here for a good time not a long time so make the most of that.